Today is November 5th. And while it may not be an especially important day to you, it is my daughter, Payton's, 8th birthday. This day leads me to reflect on a few things concerning motherhood and what a wonderfully amazing and yet difficult job it can be.

First, I am reminded of what a true gift it is to be a mother. I can remember being a little girl and dreaming of the day that I would have children of my own. I even had names picked out and grand ideas of what it would be like to be a mommy well before I entered junior high. I felt like it was God's calling on my life to be mom. Well, I've now been a mom for 12 ½ years and I can say with all honesty that this job of "mommy" is much harder than I ever dreamed it would be. And yet it is so much more incredible than I ever thought possible. I'm still amazed that I can love my children so much and that they can drive me crazy all in the same five minute time period.

Second, I am reminded that I cannot be a mom to my three beautiful children without God's help. When I am trying to do it in my own strength (which is far too often) I am short fused, selfish and too easily exhausted. But, when I am being fed by God's word and looking to Him for daily sustenance, I am less like myself as a mom, and more like Him. I want my kids to be able to see Jesus in me as I live my daily life and that will only happen as I stay connected to Him.

Third, I am reminded that the days are short. We were watching videos from when our kids were little the other day and I realized that time is not slowing down. My kids are 12, 9 and 8 and my days with them at home are flying by much too quickly. I need to be making the most of the opportunities I have to build truth into their lives and help prepare them to leave our home someday (even though I would like to keep them small forever). This is not a small task, but one well worth my investment.

If you are mom, I would encourage you to take some time today and reflect on what a privilege it is to have this title. Pull out those old videos and watch them with your kids. Be reminded that you are not alone in your journey as a mom and that as you rely on God and not your own strength, He will multiply your efforts.

Happy Birthday my dear sweet Payton!!!

Christie Darago